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  • Let's Talk!: Hosting sober guests

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    Let's Talk!: Hosting sober guests

    Mon Dec 16, 2019 4:56 pm


    People hosting guests who are in recovery or making change usually want to make it as comfortable as possible for their guest, but often aren't quite sure how. We hear from people who have the best of intentions but are anxious about how to make an event as enjoyable and easy as possible for their guest.

    Here are some of our recommendations, but looking forward to hearing yours below
    • Ask them ahead of time if there's anything you can do for them, but also try not to fuss - it's likely they'd rather not make a big deal about it
    • Have enjoyable alcohol-free drink options. Why not get creative and look into mocktails?
    • At the occassion, be respectful and understanding - they may not be feeling too bubbly, or may choose to leave early, make them feel more than welcome to do whatever suits them
    • Don't make the event all about drinking. Are there some games or activities you could do together? Finska is looking like a popular day game this Summer.
    • Consider a refuge space. If your guest is feeling overwhelmed, a quiet space like access to the garden can offer a welcomed moment.
    Some extra reading you might find helpful
    Our activity about making a plan for attending an event sober
    Our latest blog: The Sober Christmas Survival Guide
    Life Hacker's How To Make Sober Guests Feel Welcome At A Party
    Discovery House's Dos and Don’ts of Hosting a Sober Guest for the Holidays

    Whether you're hosting someone this Christmas and unsure what you can arrange for them, or perhaps a sober guest who has tips for hosts! Join the discussion by quickly registering and replying below.
    • Do you have any questions about hosting? Or something you're concerned about? Perhaps others can help or share your concern,
    • Do you have any tips for others about planning an event? or
    • Perhaps any great mocktail recipes to share?!
    Looking forward to hearing what you think!
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